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Nathan Young's avatar

You spoke at my uni in 2012 and that was probably one of the most affecting hours of my life. Thank you for your work.

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Dr. Louise Schriewer's avatar

So, so true!

If anyone is interested, I created a template text for prospective parents who want to ask for donations to effective charities (instead of a registry).

In the template, I used the charity Against Malaria, but the text could be adapted to ask for donations to other effective charities, such as Peter Singer's The Life You Can Save.

With some modifications, this template could also be used for other occasions, such as the holidays or birthdays.

I'm copying the text below (you can also find it on my website here: https://leaderforgood.com/unregistry)

"Hi and thank you for your willingness to gift something to our sweet little one.

We actually have everything we need (and more). We have more than enough clothes and books and toys.

In fact, we haven’t created a registry because we genuinely cannot think of something our child needs that we don’t yet have. (Well, other than parents with the patience of a saint…😉.)

But what if you would still like to get something for the little one?

Well, that’s where the Un-Registry comes in!

Here’s an amazing and potentially life-saving gift for our child: mosquito nets!

That’s right! We would so appreciate a donation to a charity that helps save lives. It’s called Against Malaria (the stats on this page are from their website).

Malaria kills around 625,000 people each year. 70% of these people are children under 5.

That’s thousands and thousands of little kids, all as wonderful as ours, that die from a preventable disease each year. In addition to taking the lives of so many children, Malaria is also the #1 killer of pregnant women.

The good news is that it’s easy to prevent Malaria infections!

For a donation of just 2 US$ (roughly the cost of a pacifier), you can gift a mosquito net that protects 2 people for 3-4 years from being bitten by mosquitos at night.

For 10 US$ (roughly the cost of a onesie), you can gift 5 mosquito nets.

I cannot think of any other gift that would make our child happier than being told that her/his/their existence caused someone (you?) to donate to something so important.

You can donate to Against Malaria online here: https://www.againstmalaria.com/

If you like, you can donate in the name of our little one or print out a gift certificate that we or you can keep for her/him/them until she/he is they/are old enough.

Thank you!"

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